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Christopher: Many of you believe that when someone dies, they are gone, stops existing. That is not true. You are all eternal beings, humans and animals and plants alike. You can never stop existing.

Never.

There is no such thing as death.

What death really is, is just a change in form. You change from physical form to the form we are in – Non-Physical. We know there is no death, you see, because we are what you would call dead. And we know we are not gone!

You are not alive or dead, but they are the same.

There is no dead or alive. We are all the same, we are all both of these things all of the time. Your soul always stays in Heaven as you call it, or as we call it The Source of Everything There Is, and You (the big you, your soul) choose to expand its being into physical form.

Your soul is unlimited, it can be a limitless number of Physical Beings at once. You are not one Soul, and one body.

That is what soulmates are.

There are many soulmates for you, human or animal, not only one true love as many humans think. Your meet your soulmates not only in the form of romantic love, either.

Your best friend may or may not be one of your soulmates (meaning; of the same Soul). Your pet can be your soulmate. And yes, your lover can be your soulmate.

Or not.

You can love a person and be with them your whole life without them necessarily being of the same soul as you are. It is not necessary.

Also, it is likely that your mortal enemy might be your soulmate too, and they are there because your soul is seeking expansion, and so made you both to be opposites, and bring out great wanting in you both.

As an example, our translator, Annika, and one of her cats, Emmy, is of one Soul. They have a special connection, very close, and Emmy has learned much of the vibration she puts out from Annika.

Yes, animals have vibrations just as you humans, although there are differences in intention. We will go into this further in other articles.

What Grief is

When someone dies, you grieve for them, and miss their presence. There is two reasons for those feelings. Remember, your feelings are always caused by how you think. When you think a thought that your Inner Being, or Soul, does not agree with you on, you feel bad, because you separate yourself from your soul.

When a thought makes you feel bad, it means that the thought is not true.

Many of you have been taught, that when someone dies, they are gone, and you will never see them again. This is not a true belief, which is why it feels so bad to think like this.

As you may recall, a belief is nothing more than a thought you keep thinking, a thought-habit it could be called. That is all a belief is. If those are the kind of thoughts you think when someone goes back to Non-physical, no wonder it feels bad.

There is also another reason you feel grief when someone you love or care deeply about remove themselves from your presence. Because you feel love for them, when you are with them or think about them you feel wonderfully good.

You feel that way because what you think about them agrees with the way Source thinks about them, and in their presence you and your Soul are one.

Your Soul feels only love.

When you feel love your Soul is right there with you. And when they go, you don’t have that connection. If the person goes away from you, if they live far away, or goes traveling, you miss them.

What you are really missing is not that person, but how you feel when they are there. You miss your connection to your Soul. If you practice choosing your thoughts, you can feel that feeling of love no matter if the person you love are there with you physically or not.

When someone you love dies, and your connection to your own soul depends upon them, of course it really hurts. It’s like tearing yourself apart.

And when you believe you will never see them again, perhaps even that they do not exist anymore, that belief is so untrue that you are thinking the exact opposite of what your soul is thinking, and your soul wants you to know that you are heading in the complete opposite of what you want, that is why you feel one of the most worse-feeling feelings there are.

That is what Grief is.

That’s why the more you love someone, the worse it feels when they die. What we want you to know, even though it may be hard to believe from where you are, is; you can feel that love practically all the time with or without your loved one there.

And they are never gone, they are always here, as we are always here, just in a different form, a form you cannot see from your physical view.

And if you have the wanting, and practice feeling better by choosing your thoughts, you can talk to your loved ones from physical being to non-physical being, you can talk to them again, even before you die.

Of course when you go too, you will be together again anyway. And your relationship will be better than ever before, for you will both be the best of what you are now, you will both be Who You Really Are.

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